gentility
UK: dʒenˈtɪləti | US: dʒenˈtɪləti
n. the quality of being genteel; refined or polite behavior
n. the social class of well-bred or aristocratic people
The word "gentility" traces back to the Latin gentilis, meaning "of the same clan or family," derived from gens (family, tribe). In medieval Europe, it evolved to denote nobility or high social standing (gentil in Old French). The suffix -ity (from Latin -itas) forms abstract nouns indicating a state or quality. Thus, "gentility" originally referred to the status of being noble, later broadening to describe refined manners associated with the upper class.
Her gentility was evident in her graceful manners and soft speech.
The old mansion exuded an air of faded gentility.
Despite his wealth, he lacked the gentility expected in high society.
The book explores the decline of gentility in modern urban life.
She treated everyone with kindness and gentility, regardless of their background.