self-absorbed

UK: ˌself əbˈzɔːbd | US: ˌself əbˈzɔːrbd

Definition
  1. adj. excessively focused on oneself or one's own interests, often to the neglect of others.

Structure
self <oneself>absorbed <engrossed>
Etymology

The word combines "self," from Old English self (referring to one's own identity), and "absorbed," derived from Latin absorbere (ab- "away" + sorbere "to suck in"). Originally, "absorbed" described literal immersion (e.g., liquid soaking into a sponge), but by the 18th century, it metaphorically extended to mental preoccupation. "Self-absorbed" emerged in the 19th century, vividly depicting someone psychologically "soaked up" in their own thoughts or desires.

Examples
  1. Her self-absorbed attitude made it hard for others to connect with her.

  2. He became so self-absorbed during the project that he ignored his team's suggestions.

  3. Social media can sometimes encourage self-absorbed behavior.

  4. The celebrity's self-absorbed interview disappointed fans expecting humility.

  5. Avoid being self-absorbed; actively listen to those around you.