self-pity
UK: ˌself ˈpɪti | US: ˌself ˈpɪti
n. excessive, self-indulgent unhappiness over one's own troubles or misfortunes
The word "self-pity" combines "self," from Old English self, meaning "one's own person," and "pity," from Latin pietas (duty, compassion). The term emerged in the early 17th century to describe an inward focus on one's sorrows, often with a negative connotation of indulgence. The morphemes retain their original spellings, reflecting a transparent compound structure.
His constant self-pity made it hard for others to sympathize with him.
She realized wallowing in self-pity wouldn’t solve her problems.
The therapist encouraged him to replace self-pity with proactive steps.
Self-pity can isolate you from meaningful support.
The novel’s protagonist struggles with self-pity after a major loss.